Even if you’re relentlessly attracted to bad-boys or bad-girls, or to unavailable people, you can still develop this capacity.
Here’s what she said: “Make sure that the reasons she’s not attracted to him aren’t based on something from her past. Perhaps she’ll come to appreciate him for all the good things and the other side will come naturally.Or an inability to believe her good fortune in finding a good man. She seems to enjoy him and he loves her—that’s very important.” Now, Mom and I don’t always agree on things. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected](be sure to read these guidelines first). New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog.Your married pals are probably telling you to sally forth despite your misgivings because they’re just a little jealous.How many of them have adoring spouses who worship the ground they walk on? You can factor their input into your decision-making process, but don’t let them make up your mind and don’t cave to peer pressure. So, let’s plumb the depths of shallowness just a bit further in search of a little more insight.